{"id":1309,"date":"2020-01-21T16:45:01","date_gmt":"2020-01-21T16:45:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/womensrealm.co\/?p=1309"},"modified":"2020-08-24T19:08:47","modified_gmt":"2020-08-24T19:08:47","slug":"how-to-start-conversation-tinder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/womensrealm.co\/how-to-start-conversation-tinder\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Start a Conversation on Tinder"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n
It’s a match! Uh\u2026 now what?\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Tinder and other dating sites make it easy to find and narrow down a pool of potential partners. But, they don’t do the real work though– putting yourself out there. Yeah, sure, you’re there<\/em> technically, doing the whole swipey thing, but you’re one ignored Tinder chat away from retiring to the missed connections section of Craigslist.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n How to talk to girls on Tinder and how to approach dudes on dating sites is still as mystifying as in the real world. If you don’t message first (or reply with appropriate gusto), the number of dates you’ll end up with will remain zero.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Luckily, whether you’re initiating or responding, there are some easy-to-use best practices for Tinder conversations. And these will work for other apps and dating sites, too, so don’t worry if swipe culture isn’t exactly your thing.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n This part isn’t about specifics. Above all, the first step to any conversation is saying something…anything. That’s the only way, and how to start a conversation on Tinder is no different.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n You’ve got to overcome hang-ups about yourself or rejection. While you should always aim to be respectful and kind and mix conversation between listening, responding, and sharing, it doesn’t really matter what<\/em> you say.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n People will play games with you; people will ignore you; people will be ruder and less considerate than they might in person. There will be people with whom you cannot click, no matter how much you’d like to. Consider it good luck that you can remove them from your dating pool almost immediately.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n This is simply the cost of doing romantic business, so try to prepare yourself and dive in. If you’ve ever said anything to another human being, even just a Tinder first message, you’re basically ahead of the curve.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Whenever works. It’s helpful to align it with when they’re shown as active. But that’s no guarantee that they’ll respond post haste anyway!\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n You two hardly know anything about each other. While you should be as courteous as possible with replies, rather than obtuse, don’t read into every delay like it’s a purposeful affront. Should conversation flow naturally after initiating it, you two will either fall into a rhythm, or you can straight up ask what days and times they’re free to chat.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n And if your Tinder conversation starters aren’t getting responses right away, a follow up after a few days to a week is fine, but not required. Pick your battles.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\nBut, Like, What to Say<\/em> on Tinder?<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
When to Say It<\/h3>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
How to Start a Tinder Conversation<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n